ELUSIVE INNOCENCE -
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"The strategic pointers that make up the bulk of the book are revealing." - Salon.com (5-22-02)

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DON'T BLAME ME, DADDY

Don't Blame ME, Daddy provides help in distinguishing between true and false allegations of child sexual abuse. It was written to remind all Americans that not every allegation of abuse is well-founded or made in good faith.

It should be required reading for the other victims of false charges: social workers, therapists, guardians-ad-litem, attorneys, judges, teachers, police officers and lawmakers.

Take a peek look at this ground-breaking book, view the: SAMPLE CHAPTER

Ashes to Ashes... Families to Dust

"ASHES to ASHES... Families to Dust is a realistic view on child abuse in the world today. The truth is scary and Dean Tong writes it like it is so. ASHES to ASHES makes you stop and think about the way you have or are now, raising your children. Anyone going through a divorce or separation should read this book...you won't be sorry! Don't be a victim!"

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Pitfalls When Divorcing a Borderline Personality Disorder Spouse

DEAN TONG'S new monograph PITFALLS WHEN DIVORCING A BPD SPOUSE is now available for sale for $11.00 (incl. S&H). LOVE & LOATHING, which Dean Tong contributed to, is available now. Call 1-888-35-SHELL to order your copy, now.

Help for those falsely accused of domestic violence and/or child abuse
Psychological characteristics of a BPD accuser
Why Borderlines cannot mediate and must litigate
Advise on No-Fault Divorce, UCCJA and PKPA
UCCJA Codes and Statutes for all 50 states
BPD and Syndrome evidence
Dean Tong's answers to non-borderlines questions

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Love and Loathing

Protecting Your Mental Health and Legal Rights When Your Partner Has Borderline Personality Disorder.

In this newly published 85 page booklet by Eggshells Press called LOVE & LOATHING: Protecting Your Mental Health and Legal Rights When Your Partner Has Borderline Personality Disorder, in which author Dean Tong contributed to the same, you will learn about:

The Confusion Stage: When the non-borderline doesn't have a clue to what's going on
TheOuter-Directed Stage: When the non-borderline realizes it's not his/her problem and relinquishes blame to the BP
The Inner-Directed Stage: When the non-borderline reflects inwardly.
The Decision Making Stage: When the non-borderline must clearly understand their own beliefs and expectations
The Resolution Phase: When the non-borderline implements decisions, possibly, litigation. Here, Dean Tong discusses the SAID Syndrome (Sexual Allegations In Divorce) and PAS (Parental Alienation Syndrome), what they mean to the non-borderline, and, of utmost importance, how-to fight back the same!